Chris and Shubha are two of the nicest people I know.  They are also zany – and I believe zany is a great word for this.  The first time I met Shubha, she gave me a foot rub.  Chris and I share some kind of karmic energy because he lived in the tiny bedroom I was renting after I moved out.  That’s a great bedroom for finding a spouse, by the way.  You are so miserable all cramped into that space that you end up finding a significant other and moving in right away.  Worked for Chris and me!  They made it official, Bengali style, with tons of laughter, color, food… and a dinosaur: