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IAQ #2: What are things that bother you from other photographers?

Every now and then in a client consult, the couple I’m meeting with will throw something at me that is unexpected or interesting or makes me pause. The first time, I made it into a post, and now I’m thinking I should really take the time to blog about this stuff – under the headline Infrequently Asked Questions (IAQs). Some of the things my potential clients throw at me is fascinating to me to dissect and possibly interesting or useful to someone looking to hire me.

The other day, the people I was meeting with asked me what bothers me about other photographers – their images or the way they conduct themselves. Everyone (or nearly everyone) I meet with is hiring a photographer for the first time, trying to determine what is important and what doesn’t matter; how much they need to spend to get the images they want, without really knowing what they want. So really, this is a great question, assuming they actually like me and my images. So here we go – things photographers do that bother me, with hopefully enough respect:

ErinMay 7, 2013 - 4:30 pm

I’m no photographer, but I couldn’t agree more about the processing point. I think overly processed images look…well…gross.

Erin SchradMay 7, 2013 - 5:13 pm

“Piss-yellow skies, overexposure, black and whites with no black and no white…” Amen, sister! Flat black and whites drive me crazy!! (As well as all that other trendy crap.)

“But I’m not going to script a wedding. I’m there to document, not direct.” Double amen!

The Elegant DJ (Edward Entertainment)May 7, 2013 - 9:57 pm

Very good points to ponder. The ones that stand out for me are the ‘tacky tourist’ attired. Like you, we are not there to steal the show or otherwise be annoying.

Liz & Ashwin | National Museum for Women in the Arts wedding | Washington, DC

Liz and Ashwin, with the help of their brilliant planners A. Dominick Events, threw the prettiest, most atmospheric wedding I have had the opportunity to document. They and their families infused the day with warmth and laughter, while honoring both Hindu and Jewish traditions. The National Museum for Women in the Arts provided a truly spectacular setting for quite a day.

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They got started at their impressive suite at the Sofitel.

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I love how putting on a wedding sari and accessories is a big family affair.

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They we scooted to the National Museum for Women in the Arts for family pictures and some quick bride and groom photos.

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With some awesome art. NMWA keeps their weird art in one tiny room, apparently, but fortunately for me, it was also the only spot with a window. Also fortunately for me, Liz and Ashwin were keen to have their photos taken in front of this sweet/weird thing.

Tina TabibiMay 7, 2013 - 11:44 am

Wow girlie! These are phenomenal. Gorgeous! Well done.

Abby GraceMay 8, 2013 - 10:17 am

I shot here back in April and LOVED IT! The NWMA is an incredible gem. I really love the lighting set-up for your ceremony- beautiful, beautiful work Amber!

stefanieMay 8, 2013 - 10:58 am

wow! gorgeous wedding and gorgeous couple! i love the venue and colors. beautiful job.

Bobbie Reichert RoseMay 8, 2013 - 1:56 pm

Absolutely beautiful! Congratulations, Liz and Ashwin!

Dale LempaMay 10, 2013 - 6:07 pm

Beautiful documentary and portraiture.

Susan & Senthil | Hot Air Balloon Engagement Photos | Westminster, MD

So there’s this trend, among photographers, to say every single wedding was the “best ever” or each engagement session that comes along is their “new favorite”. But Susan and Senthil took me along on a hot air balloon ride, and I think that justifies me saying: this was the freakin’ raddest engagement session ever. And it super doesn’t matter that they were already married. Cuz:

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The weather gods were not with us the first couple times we tried to schedule this photo shoot, but we rallied post-wedding with some lovely spring weather. Susan worked everything out with Balloons Over America based in Westminster, Maryland. From what she told me and my experience with Mark and Melissa on the day of the shoot, they are an incredibly hard-working, generally awesome bunch of people.

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It wouldn’t have seemed crowded in the basket if I wasn’t trying to take photos.

stefanieMay 1, 2013 - 9:45 am

this is SO SO cool!!! love the photos and their idea for engagement pics! minus the fact that i’m terrified of heights and was scared just looking at your photos, this would be a fun experience :)

EmilyMay 1, 2013 - 10:15 am

Um, yeah…. amazing.

Stephen K. Shefrin PhotographyMay 1, 2013 - 1:22 pm

What an awesome idea for an engagement shoot. Once in a lifetime shoot.

KelseyMay 1, 2013 - 2:53 pm

How awesome! Your photos are incredible and what a fun and unique idea for an engagement session!

Dale LempaMay 3, 2013 - 10:04 am

Cool stuff! Awesome idea, and well executed.

Serena SevertsonMay 6, 2013 - 1:22 pm

This. Is. Awesome.

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